Friends - part 2

... & new friends

These first few months of 2015 brought me a bunch of new friends, met in different places and for a number of reasons. I couldn’t be happier (pun fully intended) to have met several people from the Wicked fandom, whom I originally only knew on twitter, and become friend with a few of them. Some other friends came thanks to uni, either because of Open Days or because of the Ecology fieldtrip over Easter. 

Cecilia – She was the second person from the Wicked fandom that I met, back on the 16^th of January before the Wicked show when I saw Emma Hatton for the first time. We bonded nearly instantly over our shared love for Emma and the amazing performance we witnessed together did the rest. The next time I saw her was the weekend of Jennifer DiNoia’s last shows, and since then we’ve met up lots of times, either for shows, or simply for dinner, or a sleepover. Aside from Wicked shows, we’ve been to a cabaret night together, we have organised and put together a beautiful birthday present for Emma, we’ve been to the theatre cafè and to a number of places in Victoria Station to eat (right, about that... about 80% of the time it was McDonalds, but we’ve started varying a bit lately) :D In such a short time that we’ve known each other we’ve already shared so much, including two amazing double-show days at Wicked and the most beautiful moments with our idol Emma. I’ve grown to love her so much and so quickly! She is sort of another me, a bit older and German, as we have so much in common that I couldn’t believe it at first: for example, apart from the obvious Wicked-related things, we both love writing, we have spent months in Australia (and always miss it) and neither of us eats most of sweets and chocolate. Oh, and we are so good at fangirling together! I always have so much fun when I’m with her and love spending time in her company, as is pretty obvious every time that we have to separate when we have to take different lines of tube and we spend a long time at the station where we have to change just chatting and dragging time before we go :)

With Sophie, the first time we met

Over the moon with our tickets for Emma's first show as lead

Beginning a double-show day

Happiness after our first double-show day

Sophie – I met her on the same day as Cecilia and she was actually the very first Wicked friend I met, with whom I spent a couple of hours alone chatting in front of stage door before that show on the 16^th of January. She lives in Birmingham for university and therefore I don’t see her very often, and to be fair I haven’t talked to her much lately, not even through messages. We’ve been together to a few Wicked shows, to stage door, to Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown (another musical) and she has slept over at my place a couple of night. Our time together is always loads of fun, but it hasn’t happened in a while! For my own records: her favourite Elphaba is Jennifer DiNoia (no need to specify the Glinda, as it’s Savannah Stevenson for all of us unless otherwise specified).

Twin Elphaba necklaces

First show together

With Sophie and Jen at the camping for Jennifer's last

Before a Natalie McQueen show announced last minute

Amy – I met Amy for the first time at the camping for Jennifer DiNoia’s last shows in London, she was one of the “crazy” (as we were called) people who decided to camp out to get front row tickets. To be fair, I didn’t talk to her much that time and I suspect I wouldn’t have gotten much of an impression of her if she hadn’t saved me from freezing at 5am by offering me her hot water bottle to warm up under my blanket. Thanks goodness! She is such a kind person and so lovely :) I am not saying this only on the basis of that one meeting, but also from what I could see the next Monday and other times I’ve been with her. Until last week I had never seen her on my own and hadn’t spoken to her too much, even though we have daysat at Wicked together a few times, but last Wednesday we spent over an hour hanging around Victoria Station, chatting. She is lovely, I repeat myself :) 

Jen – Our Scottish hilarious friend. I met her at the camping for Jennifer’s shows and it took us very little to become friends. I suppose these crazy experiences are a good way to bond, isn’t it?! Especially when you are the only two who need frequent trips to the pub’s toilets and when you find yourselves squished together to sleep in the warm at night. Literally, we were cuddled together to keep each other warm, so I’m glad she is such a nice person! After that, I’ve seen her during my second double-show day with Cecilia for dinner and the evening show and then... there was a surreal moment a couple of weeks ago when she suddenly flew down from Edinburgh as soon as Natalie McQueen (understudy Elphaba and her favourite) was announced on for two shows on that very same day. Cecilia and I were at my place after a sleepover and we went to meet her at the station to give her some essentials (like toothbrush, etc) and keep her company while she was freaking out :)

Camping for Jennifer

Camping for Jennifer, with Jen and Cecilia

Show with Cecilia and Jen

Martin – He was the first Wicked person I ever interacted with, as he runs the original twitter fan page for Emma Hatton (I run the second one, he was there months before me!), so we started talking on twitter and facebook and eventually met on the 16^th of January. Yep, I met quite a few people that night! I have seen him several more times since then, at a number of Wicked shows and at Alice New Musical. We have become friends, but sometimes things are not as easy as I wish because there have been a few problems in our friendship. Oh well, we’ll see how things evolve, if everything gets sorted out or not. Obviously, his favourite Elphaba is Emma.

Wicked with Sophie, Martin and Bailee

Bailee – the American of the Wicked group. She is from the USA and I only met her at the end of January and for a week or so, when she was here in London for Jennifer’s last shows. She is such a lovely person, quieter than most of the others and we talked less, but lovely nonetheless. And I have messaged with her quite a bit since she’s gone back to America. I hope she comes back soon for a visit! Her favourite Elphaba is Jennifer. 

At the Wicked stage door with Bailee and Sophie

Camping with Jen, Sophie and Bailee

Lauren is the one I’ve seen the least out of my Wicked friends. I have met her three or four times at Wicked and Alice, with our first meeting being on the 16^th of January (again – I promise she is the last one I met that day). I don’t know her that well, to be fair, even though I do find her very nice and friendly. Every time I saw her she was with Martin, with whom she is best friend. Her favourite Elphaba is Emma.

Lina – getting out of the section regarding Wicked friends: Lina is in my tutorial group, but throughout the year we barely spoke to each other and always only for practical reasons... however, we ended up in the same group on the Ecology fieltrip and spent four days together for most of the time. I never thought she was such a fun and friendly person! I am so glad we had that fieldtrip, because now I’ve become friends with her and next year’s tutorial will be even more fun.

Measuring shells

Zanna – I had never ever seen her at a single lecture, despite the fact that we have exactly the same classes, but she was in my same group on the fieldtrip. We bumped into each other randomly and then she joined me and Lina for the rest of the trip, since the two of them are the only Scandinavians in our course :P She is so funny, and sparkly and fun to be with!

Me, Zanna and Lina

 

Zanna and Lina on the beach where we measure molluscs

Anita – I’m not sure I can exactly call her a friend, since we’ve spent very little time together, but she is definitely the Biology Ambassador I have talked to the most during Open Days. Also, she was on the fieldtrip with me and we had a few chats over there as well – with her saving my life by lending me a towel, seen as I had forgotten mine at home!

With Anita, Zanna and Laurana on our Ecology fieldtrip

Bio – until a couple of days ago I wouldn’t have included him in this list, because he is just one of the many people I have met on the fieldtrip, but he has been messaging me these days and he is really lovely. So I thought it would be nice to have him appear on here. He is such a cool and funny guy to have around and he keeps the fun up in any group meeting, as I saw on the fieldtrip! He is American and is going back to the USA in May after the end of his exchange.

Thinking back on my first term at Queen Mary

I suppose this post was to be expected, at the end of the first term at uni: I am going to go through the main elements of these months and summarise my impressions on everything.

Biology course

Since I am in London to study, I should definitely start from my course. In general, I have to say I really like it, because it gives me a broad background in Biology and it helps patching up the holes in my Biology knowledge derived from not doing much Biology at school in the past. 

Evolution has been my absolute favourite module, both because of my lecturers and because of the topics we covered. Unfortunately we won’t have this subject in next term, but at least now I am even more sure that I want to go on with Evolutionary Biology next year when I can choose my modules!

Cell Biology is on the other side of the spectrum... I didn’t like it very much mainly because of the lecturers. I liked my first teacher at the beginning, but then he became mean to the class, and I never liked either of the other lecturers we had. The topics weren’t bad, but I am not into cell biology that much...

In the middle there is Molecular Biology :) Not as amazing as Evolution, but still very good. We had two great and interesting lecturers, who worked hard to keep us attentive on the lessons! Both of them were very funny as well and made us laugh every single time :P

My last module is Lab (Practical and Analytical Biology), which doesn’t rank anywhere because it’s too different from the other completely theoretical ones! At first I was scared I wouldn’t be any good at this, as I have never worked in a proper lab, but it turned out to be easier than I thought. It just took a few weeks to get used to and then I started doing my work with more enthusiasm and a lot more easily than at the beginning! It was fun to work together with my friends to solve some exercises that we can’t understand at first to then find out that they are not impossible. Lab turned out to be fun and I am enjoying a lot the opportunity of doing experiments first hand! 

Preparing to count blood cells in Lab

London, my new city

I hadn’t thought about it this way, yet, until a friend of mine mentioned in an email that I was sightseeing my “own city”. I had to do a double-take before realising she was talking about London, but she is right! London is my city now :) Though, I don’t feel like I really know London. I live in my safe bubble on campus, which feels like it has its own place not belonging to a city. I love it, I love it and I love it, I’d repeat it a hundred times, but it doesn’t feel like London that much. Of London, I know the touristic areas and some other parts that are near uni, but I can’t say I know it as my city. Well, I have lived there only three months, I have plenty of time to get to know it I suppose! 

Anyway, London is an amazing city, so busy and so original! I was scared by its being so huge, and I still am, but it’s also a place that gives you the opportunity to see things you can’t see anywhere else and do stuff you can only do in London! I have discovered new hobbies here, thanks to friends, but also thanks to the fact that I’m in London because I wouldn’t have been able to develop these passions anywhere else. The most important example right now is Musical Theatre :) I had no idea I would like it so much and being near the West End allows me to enjoy it a lot! Aside from actually seeing the musicals in this wonderful location, I also decided I am interested in trying musical theatre as a hobby... and that’s why I am going to start taking singing lessons in January, to get the basics I need to start a musical theatre course afterwards :)

Living on my own

There are aspects of it I like, others I don’t particularly enjoy, but in general it’s a great experience. It’s not that I didn’t like living at home, but being by myself helped me grow a lot, it helped me becoming more mature and learning quickly things that it would have taken me a lot longer to learn otherwise. I hate washing the dishes after meals, that’s the worst thing for me, but I don’t mind that much cleaning my room, doing the washing or cooking. I didn’t know that before, but I actually kind of enjoy doing these things for myself because they make me feel responsible and adult!

Of course this year is special, because I am living on campus, where I still have someone checking that I don’t mess up too badly. Residential Services do  cover the basics, they clean the communal areas, they take care of major issues and they pay bills for us taking them from our general rental fee. Next year will be another story, because next year will be when I have to move out of campus! Thankfully, I have met someone I want to move out with next year and I am not by myself in this, but it’s kind of scary to think about. From the end of the first week, I Have been thinking about next year and I have been talking about moving out, mainly with my flat mate and friend Isabela. The main topic we have in our mind when we think of next year is the house we will have to move to. We still haven’t found one, fairly enough since we haven’t done serious searching, but that’s not our biggest worry right now. At the moment we are still trying to work out who is going to be living in that house! We often have discussions on this, on the possibilities we have and the problems that might arise, and we end up looking at houses online pretty regularly, just to try and convince ourselves that we can make it! I am sure we can, but right now it is all very confusing and I am a bit scared of next year... moving out completely will be hard and  complications might come up often. I mean, this year we are in a safe bubble on campus, where we have cleaners for the shared areas, where our bills are included in the rent (therefore we have only one deadline to worry about), where everything is close by, where we have our own private and lockable rooms if we want to be alone. Next year it will all be different! Sharing a proper house will mean totally growing up, with no looking back because we will be officially facing all the aspects of living on our own. Sure, we won’t be working full time, we will still be students, but in a different way. We will have to be completely independent and rely on our abilities all the time, with pretty much only the help of our flat mates. [The last few lines of this were taken from a previous post]. All of this said, I am positive that it will all work out soon!

People I’ve met, friends & acquaintances

I left this paragraph for the end of the post, even though it’s such an important part of my life in London! There are so many people I have met in these months, but I can only consider a few as friends. I have plenty of acquaintances and some nearly-friends in London, but those I actually consider friends are about 7 :) I was thinking of it the other day and I was listing them to myself: it’s a big number, to be fair, but this just shows that I am very lucky in meeting the right people for me!

Coincidences do happen. I have started believing so after all the experiences I’ve had so far, where I have found amazing people on my way :) But this time one of the coincidences is even bigger! The best friend I have made in England, the person with whom I share so many of my hobbies and I love spending time with the most happened to be living in my same flat! We are doing pretty much the same course, we live in front of each other and we have so much in common that sometimes I am still surprised... if I can’t call this the luckiest coincidence, I don’t know what would be!  I have been so lucky in meeting Isabela here and becoming friends with her and I am so glad I made that effort the first week to overcome shyness, because it made the rest of my stay at Queen Mary so so much better :) I can never get bored or lonely, because we spend so much time together, between movies to watch, cosplays to plan, stars to "stalk" online, chats or even doing our own things but still in the same room.

 

Again outside my course, and outside anything else for that matters, there is Maria Stella. We met by chance, because we both knew Tommaso (my flat mate, her ex-class mate), at the very beginning and we became friends so quickly! She is my Once Upon a Time partner, the third person in our little amazing trio of friends. We don’t have a course in common, we don’t share a flat, but being friends and hanging out together just came natural and is always so good :) 

 

Our trio

Last but not least among the people outside Biology, are my other flat mates! Tommaso, the other Italian in my flat, who is kind of a “little” brother to me (well, he is only a few months younger, but that’s the feeling). I wasn’t really happy about having another Italian in the flat at first, but Tommaso is lovely and I really enjoy spending time with him and talking about our days or just laughing about random stuff that comes up at the most random moments :) Melanie, with whom I have started spending more time lately and that I hope I’ll get to know better with time, after a beginning in which we rarely saw each other. Josh, whom I barely see... he is a ghost in our flat, he is nice and kind when he is around, but that happens so rarely that I am not sure I can say he is my friend! 

Isabela, Tommaso and I

Eventually, here I am to talk about my course friends! I didn’t leave them to the end because they are less important, but because I preferred separating the two categories. My little group is composed of five people, including me. Andrea, Laurana, Coral and Elena are my awesome friend from the course, with whom I spend all my lessons, I revise, do assignments, hang out for lunch... we started out only seeing each other in class, now we are doing some more together, we have been to the theatre, we went out for lunch several times including an a great and funny Christmas lunch (where Elena was missing). The group was born so quickly, in a matter of days during Freshers’ week! I met Andrea on the Tuesday, on the Wednesday I got to know Coral and Elena and finally on the Thursday also Laurana joined us :) Again, it all happened by chance, and I am so glad it did *_* Andrea is probably my closest friend among all of them, because we share the tutorial group and we have our routine-Friday when we work together on assignments and go for lunch! Laurana is one of the funniest people ever lol We have some musical taste in common, but that’s not the reason I like her so much: she is so lovely all the time and she makes me laugh too much :) Coral is the sweet and quiet girl in the group, I would say, but that doesn’t make her less of a friend to me and I actually really like spending time with her!! Lately I have seen Elena a lot less than I used to, because she spends some time with us and some with her other group (the Medical Engineering people, because that’s her specific course), but when she is with us she is so funny as well and she is sweet and friendly and she is the one who always manages to get us through thinking workshops because she is a good group leader :)

Elena, me, Coral, Andrea and Laurana after Lab

Laurana, Andrea and me at Costa for a hot drink

Xmas lunch (Coral, Lauran, me and Andrea)

Leftover bits and pieces...

• I became a Student Ambassador and now I have the opportunity of sharing with future students my experience at Queen Mary. Lovely job, isn’t it? I don’t need to fake any enthusiasm, because it’s all real, I get to tell my story to people who want to hear it and are looking up to me to know what their university life will be like. It’s a lot of responsibility, to be fair, but I’m up to it, because I owe so much to those Ambassadors who convinced me to choose Queen Mary last year!

• Theatre has become an important and wonderful part of my life, surprisingly! I never particularly liked theatre, but musicals changed it all :) So far I have only seen two (Wicked and Les Miserables), and I am about to repeat one of them in a month and a bit, but I know songs from various musicals and I already have a list of what I am going to see next! Moreover, as I mentioned above, from January I will be spending my Tuesday nights at City Academy, attending a singing course (level 1, of course – I am most definitely a beginner!) with Isabela. The idea is that if I get some vocal basics, then I can move on to musical theatre next year – as a hobby of course :)
• Societies – When it was the time of the Freshers’ fair at the very beginning, I signed up to something like 6 societies because they all sounded awesome... I still think they are great, but I haven’t been attending many events :( Sometimes I simply forgot to, some others I gave up because I was tired or didn’t feel like it... In the end I have been to a pizza/quiz night with the Biology society, a pub meeting with the Equality society, the MCM Comic Con with the Anime society, an introductory meeting with the science magazine (I have also carried out an interview, but it hasn’t been published yet) and an exhibition with the photography society. I have met a few people throughout the societies, but I didn’t really keep in touch with many. Though, the one I have talked to the most is Fenn from the photography society, who is a third year student in Zoology, therefore she told me so much about my future years! I also enjoyed being with the people from the anime society at the MCM but I haven’t seen any of them since then...